eyes on you? eyes on me?

Why is it that people are so aggravated when put into specific social groups? like they are being segregated? Especially when they everyone does it them self's with others? I myself try not to socially separate people, even though there seems to be a trend. and if i do, i don't mean to. I am soooo tired of people do this to one another as well as them selfs (sometimes without knowing it.)
I'm tired of being penalized because our age group of 21-27years has been socially determined to be the "party" age. That is not even specifically accurate either. And that since I am choosing not to do so and be and grow as a responsible adult, that I am "un-fun" "un-able" and "too motherly(?)". I feel socially and personally attacked for my choices to have a family at a young age. I don't feel that is fair, and will not stand to hear it anymore. I am tired of being too this, or too that, or not good enough because I chose to be a patent. I would much rather only have my family than anyone else. I would make my decision a million times over and lose everyone, then to never have been married or to have never had my children.
There are millions of people and families out there that have made the same decisions that we have. I wonder if they are having the same issue as me or not?


I feel as though young adults, around my age, that are making poor decisions are blaming it on the "age group definition". That it makes it okay. Its not ok. Poor decisions are alwasy going to be poor, no matter what age. If a 35 year old woman was going out almost every night, single, she would be determined to be a "cougar" and possibly an alcoholic. If a 35 year old man was doing the same thing, he would be determined to have something like a "mid life crisis" and "not have it together". But in some way if a 21 year old was going out every night drinking and doing other things, that it is perfectly fine that its just the age. Why is there such a separation about age and actions that make poor decisions acceptable or unacceptable?

I just needed to get this all out. I have been holding it in, and I am so upset that I am going through this again because I am choosing to be a mother and a wife.I am tired of people thinking I am too motherly, when I am not i am just speaking my opinion. And I am even more tired of people telling me I cant do something, because its not that I cant...its that i am choosing not to.
Maybe its just me, or maybe it isn't. Just because others are not speaking out, doesn't mean I am the only one.

Why would we choose anything else? <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3